sombr had a simple request for one particularly persistent patron: Please stop flipping him off.
During a recent stop on his “You Are the Reason Tour” in Ohio, the pop singer paused mid-set after noticing a fan in the crowd who he said had repeatedly given him the bird – apparently at more than one show.
“This guy right here just keeps flipping me off and flipping me off every night,” sombr told the crowd. “Man, I don’t know why you’re coming to my concert if you’re gonna keep flipping me off.”
After pointing out the attendee – “this guy with the shades and the leather jacket” – sombr’s rock-star swagger gave way to a softer confrontation, almost a plea. “It’s all love, but just please, please don’t flip me off at my show,” he said.
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“Please just don’t, don’t flip me off, man,” he continued. “It’s really making me sad, man. I don’t appreciate it. This is a safe space. I want everyone here to be kind to each other.”
sombr still has several North American dates remaining on the “You Are the Reason Tour,” including upcoming arena stops in Cleveland, Toronto, Boston, Philadelphia, Newark, and New York.
If you’re planning to catch one of the remaining dates, revisit our guide on how to get tickets — but maybe leave the one-finger review at home.
Sombr calls out an audience member who flipped him off during his Ohio concert. pic.twitter.com/GxsFi0xaWf
— Pop Crave (@PopCrave) November 9, 2026